LOST CHILDREN:

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                                   THE PAIN OF PARENTS WHO'VE BEEN DISAVOWED BY THEIR CHILDREN.

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REAL DEATH IS FINAL~THE PAIN OF CHOSEN 'DEATH WITHOUT A BODY' LIVES FOREVER.

PARENTS WHO SEPARATE THEIR CHILDREN FROM THEIR GRANDPARENTS IS UNCONSCIONABLE and ILLEGAL!

 

Raising children requires love and discipline. Children are too young to recognize the importance of the tenets of child-raising...misinterpreting parental love for meanness.

The sacrifices of child-rearing are lost in the growth and education process of our children. When the child reaches emancipation, advanced education is received as a requirement, an obligation...parents are simply tolerated until they form their own family.

Once the new family unit is formed, their children realize that their parents are no longer needed and choose to move on with their lives as though their parents were simply the catalyst for 'their' creation. Until they lose a child, they don't appreciate the pain of losing a child. Our 'lost' children intentionally physiologically choose to punish their parents for the misinterpreted 'love' need to bring them to where they are today.

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The problem is exacerbated with the injection of a stranger (new spouse) to the family who is entirely removed from the equation.

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In Japan, parents are revered with their children committed to their parents well-being until death. In the rest of the world, parents are regarded as an inter-generational and integral part and responsibility of their parents.

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When children intentionally disavow this implied responsibility, they cause unbearable pain...no different from the STD suffered by those described as 'wounded warriors'.

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Formerly recognized by the Government, grandparents have a legal right, and parents have a responsibility, to provide for the formation of a bond between their parents and their grandchildren.

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The underlying issue of a loving parent is simply trying to justify in their minds why their children have disavowed them...knowing the pain they are causing...reinforced at every passing and ignored holiday. If they want you in their life they'll put you there, no one should have to fight, beg, kiss ass, or pay financially for a spot. I see this all the time, grandparents buying, spending, and PINING for the love of their children or grandchildren, when the children and grandchildren could actually care less about them. (So Sad).

 

The cycle does continue, so most that are guilty of this, all are eventually paid back through karma one way or another.